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I don’t know what I want to do with my life!

One of the first steps in setting a goal for yourself is to know what your purpose in life is.  Many students I talk to have not really thought this out and it’s really hard to figure out without doing some of the work of knowing yourself and taking the challenge of dreaming big. Do not delay figuring out a field or area you want to focus on.  In the past, the first couple years of college give you the opportunity to try different fields and give you time to figure your focus.  But many people will not have that luxury and having a focus or field now will give you an edge over other students.

Some tips for students

  • Hey Students, it is your life!   You are responsible for your own life and your own future.  Parents can help and support but they can’t study for you.  In the long run, you are going to have to pay your own rent, buy your car and pay for own phone.
  •  Set a goal for yourself.  It’s really hard to get anywhere if you don’t know where you are going!  Set a goal and start working towards that goal.
  • Setting a goal is challenging.  Take these simple steps to figure out what you want to do.
  1. Take 30 minutes and write everything you love doing and things you are really good at.  Don’t over think it.  Anything that comes into your mind goes on the paper.
  2.  Examine your brainstorm.  See if there is a pattern to your ideas.  There might be a couple of areas you might want to consider.
  3.  Answer this question with the information you have on the paper: 5 years from now, what does your life look like?  What is the purpose to my life?
  • Start collecting experiences in the area you are interested in. Take every opportunity to find out more about your field.  Go on the internet and look up your field, how much people make in this field, what kind of schooling am I going to need.  Volunteer in the field. Try finding a job related to what you want to do. Find a professional association; go to events, lectures around this field.  Meet people in the field and ask questions.  As you gain experience, you will start to see things that you enjoy and things to hate doing.  Your experience will  inform your decisions.
  • Find your purpose. Everyone born on this earth has a purpose, a contribution to society and humankind.  Write down that purpose.
  • Check it out with friends and parents. Don’t be shy and tell the people who know you best what is your purpose.  Take their advice but be true to your own heart.
  • Find the best school to get the training you need, once you know what you want to do.

Knowing where you are going and taking action for your own life is the first step to a fulfilling life filled with exciting experiences, challenging goals and so much fun!

Con cariño,

Ana Maria Soto

La College Guru

Educatelatina.com

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Share Power by Marlene Gonzalez

 

1.-Model Success. Look around your organization; study the leadership methods of great leaders and how they share power to empower other.

2.-Determine Competency Level. Focus on a few critical competencies or behavior. It allows you to invest the right amount of time and energy.

3.-Set Clear Expectations. It is critical to set expectation and direction; as well as mutually agreed to goals, date lines and desired outcomes.

4.-Communicate Boundaries. It helps the person understand his or her limits and restrictions when accountable for the project.

5.-Allow Cross-Cultural Pollination. Share ideas, options and discrete feedback as often as possible to increase awareness, creativity and flexibility for different ways of thinking and doing things.

6.-Give them a Chance. Give employees opportunities to grow in their areas of expertise, and in general business knowledge that enables them to act in the best interest of the organization and its customers.

7.-Get Out of the Way. Give people room to maneuver; but be vigilant, being too hands off may have negative effects. You need to strike for a good balance.

8.-Encourage Risk Taking. Giving power to people also means risks. Help them get out of their conform zone and take educated risks. Make a conscientious effort to have employees gain experience, recognition and validation for their contributions.

9.-Be a Match Maker. Help them make the right connections by introducing them to people, networks, or contacts that may help them along the way.

10.-Create a “Power Sharing Environment”. The right environment supports people achieve their highest potential and be capable of acting on their own initiative.

Marlene González, is founder and president of Life Coaching Group LLC. She is a leader in the cutting edge industry of executive coaching, consulting and training. Her organization is dedicated to “developing leaders as a catalyst for corporate growth and a source of intellectual capital”™. Educate Latina is so proud to have her as a contributor.

http://www.lifecoachinggroup.org/resources/keynote.html

 


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Mothers can help her kids get to college

May is my favorite month since I get to go to many graduations and I celebrate mothers all month-long.  This week, I was proud to attend my brother’s graduation from law school and I wondered what a mother can do to help a kid excel in school and see them graduate from college.  Mothers are so influential in our lives. Many credit their mothers for making it all the way. I know my mother has always been so supportive of each of my steps to college.

Here are some tips on how to encourage your kids if you are a mother.

Start early. Parents who set expectations high for their kids on the very first day of  pre-school do better. Everyone believes in education but saying the words is simply not enough. Take action by setting up a college fund when they are born, even $25 a month sends the message that this is something you expect!  If possible, start them in school as early as you can. Pre-school sets children on a path to learning.  As they grow start telling them that you believe in them, that you will help them get to college and you expect them to excel in school, demand good grades, dream big and stay on top of them.

Be involved.  Being involved in your kid’s school will give you a first row seat to the great programs and scholarships that are available. Know your kids teachers, join parent programs and help around school.  Even when you are tired from a long day at work, going to the parent meeting will set you and your kids on path to success by getting information others never hear about.

Be a role model.  Take a class yourself, read a book, go to a museum, teach them as you run errands. This all send the message that learning is important and you care about it.   More than hearing what you say, they follow what you do.

READ READ READ.  Get the reading bug and set up  reading time in your house.  Turn off the novela and do some reading out loud!  How many books do you have in your house?  We are so blessed to have a free library system so there is no excuse not to have books around.

Watch your words. Words you say might bring self-doubt. You might think that you are protecting your kids my giving them a dose of reality but kids receive them as negative messages that will create barriers as kids grow. Never tell them they are dumb or lazy, they will believe you.

Wishing you a wonderful journey as a mother and a student to reach your best life!  Feliz Día de las Madres.

Ana María Soto

La College Guru

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DREAMS WILL COME TRUE if you work on them!

                 We all have dreams.  Some have dreams that they dare put into action, others dream quietly and never do anything about it.  We need to learn how to dream BIG, and wholeheartedly! Often, we create our own roadblocks because we believed somebody else’s opinion rather than our own, or because we were so tied up in our own problems and challenges we didn’t realize that we can achieve far more than we ever thought possible.  True leaders rise above their own problems to become role models for others.

Going to college is a dream that so many of us dare to dream. In the famous Pothole study,   researchers at the University of Chicago found  that Latinos systematically lower their expectations!  Many Latino students went to a community college instead of a four-year university because they didn’t know how to dream big and take risks.  Don’t be one of them, dream big and make a plan to make it happen!

Here are some tips to get you going:

Visualize yourself going to college.  Ok, take a deep breath and know in your heart that this is for you! World-class athletes and anyone that has to perform under pressure use this technique.  Take a few minutes every day to see yourself in college, sitting at a desk, carrying your books, and making new friends! And you’ll meet some cute guys, too!

Write down your goals and plans.  Date and review your goals at least twice a month to see how you are doing.

Get a club started. Working with a group of chicas who share your goal of going to college will give you strength and partners.  You know how sometimes we won’t even go to the bathroom without our BFFs; well, this is a chance to form a solid bond and help each other to achieve your goals.  Choose your college chicas club carefully.  Pick chicas that have good grades, are serious about the future and hold each other accountable.

Find a mentor that will help you DREAM big.  Find a tia, a prima or a teacher, that can help you and inspire you.

So next week I will talk about EL PLAN.  This is the strategic plan that will get you to where you want to go. Set the PLAN in motion for you: Yes! You can go to college, and get a better life for yourself!

Con mucho cariño,

La College GURU

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La college guru is here to answer questions

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April 25, 2012 · 3:20 PM

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One of the things that I know for sure is Latinas need to support each other to make it.  I am so blessed with a great group of mujeres that have always given me their advice and support in all of life’s decisions.  Each of us has wisdom and resources to share across the world, especially using the web to create what I envision as a movement that will transform our life, our community, our country and the world.  Once Latinas get it, we are persistent, talented and ready to change our world!

I am honored to be “la College Guru” at the Latina Smart Facebook Wall!   I will be sharing advice on getting to college and beyond. You will also be able to post questions on education and I will answer on a weekly video blog!    We all have educational aspirations and dreams but there are strategic decisions that you will have to make along the way.  I have spent the last 20 years working in education and 14 of those years in higher education.  This past year I worked at New Futuro  and created  workshops that teach Latinos how to prepare, apply and pay for college.  Over 3000 people in the Chicago region attended the series of workshops!

I know the challenges and the dreams of our community.  I hope to show you step by step the way to a better life with a college education.  I believe that there is an educational option after high school for every person in this country.  It is going to take hard work but that never scared a Latino.

I created this blog for you and this is your opportunity to ask lots of questions, share your life experiences, take part to the fullest so we can together become the smart Latinas that we were meant to be.  So consider me your friend, your advisor and together with the partnership of Latina Smart, we will celebrate your achievements, present super Smart Latinas, and urge you to reach for a better life for you and your family. Together we can do it.  Juntas Salimos Adelante!

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Picture Success! by Marlene Gonzalez

1. Design Your Future. Take the time to write a clear picture of what happiness and success is for you. Write your values, goals, roles and actions you want to accomplish next year. People fail because they aren’t absolutely clear about their goals.

2. Embrace Top Priorities. For example: If you want to qualify for a promotion access your strengths and weakness, and set to work on one or two skills that would have the biggest impact on your career and improve your chances to qualify for a better position or a new job.

3. Set Aside Quality Face Time. The connectedness today is different to what it used to be in the past. Some reasons are working longer hours, higher expectations and technology. For example, family members and coworkers are not spending quality time together, but relaying more than ever before on technology to coördinate activities, and check in with each other by texting.

4. Make Strategic Choices. Remember you have 12 months, 365 days and 8760 hours. Make strategic choices about how you employ the time you have in your life.

5. Establish Effective Planning Routine. Use a good tool, use technology. For example plan for the most important events for each of the roles in advance such as vacation, meetings and conventions just to name a few.

6. Create Ways to Get Things Done. Develop an ongoing process of prioritizing and accomplishing things. Every night, make a list of what you want to accomplish the next day. Have a master list, a monthly list, a weekly list and a daily list.

7. Seek for Synchronicity. It is very powerful to synchronize calendars ahead of time. A priority matrix helps set clear expectation about whom and what events you will be attending; this prevents you from missing important events or disappointing people. If you will not be attending an important event say so, make an apology, and avoid being manipulated or feeling guilty about it. If possible make it up to that person next time.

8. Anticipate Risks. Great results do not happen by accident. Instead, successful people take risks; use detailed and flexible plans to plot their course and direction of their personal and professional lives as companies do.

9. Celebrate. Do not miss the opportunity to celebrate and acknowledge everyone’s participation when a milestone is accomplished, show appreciation and thank them.

10. Be Flexible. Even with a good plan there are things that will take you off course. Be Flexible. Success requires adaptability, flexibility and the constant monitor of results and continually adapting to changing conditions. After all it is your life and you and only you determine what makes you happy and successful.

Marlene González, is founder and president of Life Coaching Group LLC. She is a leader in the cutting edge industry of executive coaching, consulting and training. Her organization is dedicated to “developing leaders as a catalyst for corporate growth and a source of intellectual capital”™. Educate Latina is so proud to have her as a contributor.

http://www.lifecoachinggroup.org/resources/keynote.html

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